Using the Right Professional

Some divorces call for additional professionals beyond those I’ve previously listed.  You might need an appraiser if either spouse is involved in a private business, some collectibles, or another valuable asset.   An appraiser is often needed to value the family home.  You might need a vocational evaluator if one of the spouses hasn’t been in [...]

Working the Numbers in Divorce

The financial settlement is the major component of many divorces.  Making sure that a professional who is an expert in finances is also an expert in divorce is key.  A financial professional working on a divorce needs to be familiar with the legal landscape in divorce, tax issues that specifically relate to divorce, and the long [...]

Divorce and Emotion – Working with a Therapist

Divorce can be a huge trauma.  Many mental health professionals say that divorce is one of the most devastating events people can go through.  A support system of friends and family that can help you through is important.  But sometimes, despite all their good intentions of your personal support system, they don’t support you in [...]

Picking a Divorce Attorney

Most people, when they’re going through a divorce either are determined to keep attorneys out of the process or feel that hiring an attorney is their first move.  A divorce is a legal process, so going through without so much as a consultation from an attorney is probably not a good move.  Attorneys each have [...]

Do It Yourself Divorce

I get folks all the time that come to me wanting to do their divorce without attorneys.  They’d like to save money – keep the attorneys from getting it all – but they have a few financial answers they want that they’re willing to pay a little money for.  Divorce is an area where no [...]

Reader Question – Divorce, Disability, and Quilts

A Reader Writes
 Linda,  I recently retired and went through a divorce after 38 years of marriage. During my pre-retirement years, I was out on SSI for ten years. My ex and I had a small business-I made handmade quilts. The business was in his name as I could only make a certain amount of money or [...]